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I cannot stress this enough: Be yourself! We all bring something different to the table. They probably think your quiet wit is dope as hell. Own it!
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Be yourself but know that sarcastic humor doesn't always land well in corporate settings, so know your audience.
Maybe this is more in my head than I realized! I worked from home yesterday and when I came into the office today the receptionist said, “when you’re gone part of the rainbow is missing.” And I practically melted upon hearing that! Maybe I’m just a regular turtle and not an awkward one?
Yes, don’t overthink it. You bring something to the table. Elle Woods is awesome but do we really need her twin? Lol
Chief
Find out what makes Elle Woods deeply sad since you have gained her trust. Before going into a scheduled staff meeting, walk into her office and inquire about a matter to be subtle but also about “X” to throw off her game. If you’re standing next to someone who’s sad, you’ll suddenly appear to be pleasant
Another Elle Woods hater
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This is a very endearing post. :)
You know how they say you shouldn’t act a certain way in a new relationship unless you’re ready to act the same way forever? Same thing applies for jobs. Try to be as nice as possible, smile, etc but be yourself! There’s nothing wrong with quietness. A few years ago I worked with an attorney who was very reserved and quiet, but I will always remember how she would give a genuine smile if you caught her eye in a meeting or something. And who knows, maybe your Elle Woods friend wishes she was more observational like you after sticking her foot in her mouth a few too many times :)
I’m quiet until you get to know me, too, and I have found that my best friends are extroverts because they bring out the best in me and take the attention away from me, which I like. We work so well together - like PB&J. Your Elle Woods will probably become your best work friend. It’s perfectly ok to be the quiet one!
Like others have said, just be yourself. Smiles, friendly hellos, and small talk go a long way. Before you know it, everyone will see and love your authentic sparkle and shine! 😊