I'm newly single after a 4 year relationship. Any tips?

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Spend time to discover yourself, to figure out what you want in life and future relationship. Find a hobby, travel, read books, work out, go out with your friends... Become your own best friend. I divorced my husband 7 years ago. At first I was desperate to find a man right away as I did not want to be alone. I spent my first single year on dating spree. But then I took the time to be single and fell in love with my "singlehood". I have been spending time to get to know myself. I have such a rich life now! I am happy and complete person. Interesting thing is that in this happy and rich state of mind, I started to attract lots of happy, interesting and successful men (relationship material). So go out and start living! You will attract the one eventually by the person you will become.

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You aren't single... You're in a long term relationship with a needy, high maintenance bitch that is public accounting 😂

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That's almost the perfect age, because the people you meet will be more established and interested in a long term relationship. You'll find someone else.

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You're gonna die alone 😂😂😂

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Yeah. Enjoy being alone for a while. Relationships are hard work and you just earned yourself a vacation.

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Call me maybe?!

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🙋🏼 single too!

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Bang everyone

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Watch Forgetting Sarah Marshall

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Tinder

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I've got a fantastic 26 year old teacher for you👍🏼

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Travel as much as possible

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Lots of fun sex. Let's hook up

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@EY1 nailed it, this is coming from a guy that has done about the same

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Tinder Swipe Right all day all night

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early 30s. Guy.

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Pre nup

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Guy or girl?

How old?

Are you exited that you're single ?

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