I have a question. I work as an assistant manager been a manager for a while worked for the company for 6 years. I know crew gets paid a dollar less than me yet a do a lot ( its part of my job ) I asked for a raise I was told wait 3 months. Waited I asked again was told I needed to do this this and that. I feel like I'm under paid, but I love my job and crew.
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How large is your referral bonus if you refer someone and they get hired at your company?
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485 j is approved but 485 AOS application still pending? What does this mean? I thought there is just one 485 application.
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I’m looking for data analyst roles right now at a top company. Any tips on how I can make myself stand out ?
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Interviewed for a lateral role today and I am excited about the role. Should I send a thank you email? Do they matter?
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Ran into my ex this weekend at a restaurant. Thankfully it was on my way out and I’m almost positive he didn’t see me. I’ve never felt my heart race more. It’s been ~8 months since the break up and I’ve been doing a lot better this summer, but this really makes me feel like I’m regressing, I have been so sad since seeing him. Our break up was vague and left me with so many questions and I thought I came to terms with it but now all I want to do is reach out. Any advice / words of encouragement?
This feels like kind of a weird question but does anyone ever feel bad for doing too well at work? I’ve recently had a few coworkers be really mean to me for getting chosen for opportunities that they wanted and for getting recognition for things that they wanted credit for alone. I know I’ve earned the opportunities and recognition but it sucks when everyone is tearing you down for it. I’ve also found it harder to relate to my friends who are mostly struggling financially right now.
I have a huge problem with being criticized or anything that looks like it may be approaching conflict. I avoid doing/saying/sharing things and sometimes lie to avoid this happening, and I’ve been doing so more and more. It’s starting to make a mess of my marriage. Anyone gone through this? Books or subjects to look into?
I shared the wrong screen in a meeting with 1 direct report (Director) and 1 of his direct reports (Sr Manager) 😱. I have 2 screens and Zoom chose the one not in front of me and I had no idea. The screen had my to do list on it and number 1 was “send resume to x” (name of recruoter and company was there). About 3 seconds after I shared the Director said “I think you’re sharing your to do list” and I immediately closed it. I have to assume they saw everything. What do I do?
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Absolutely heartbreaking to read this and so frustrating to have to say it, but advocate for yourselves and your pain, ladies! www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/interactive/2022/women-pain-gender-bias-doctors
All-male client group gets annoyed every time I talk, and the SM treats me like an idiot and then takes credit for the work they praise. How do I keep my sanity on this project?
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A recruiter from MBB reached out on LinkedIn and we scheduled for a call for me to get to know more about the role and them to know about me. I have less than one year YOE and have not been reached out before. I am very nervous. What should I expect from the call and how do I prepare for it?
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So I have a huge crush on my co worker, we’re on the same project and same job position but this is the first time I’ve had an office crush. We’re very friendly and chat almost through out the day. I also know that there’s a possibility of me shifting companies as soon as this project is over (Feb ‘23). What should I do?
A. Should I remain professional and not say a word? Wait till I’m out to make a move?
B. Casually ask him out?
C. Ask myself to get over it?
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Well if it’s an important need for you and is going to go unmet then I would think it could be an issue. As a minimum, I’d talk with SO about your desire for this for you (as child in relationship). I’d also explore whether you’re worried about how close/distant your future children (should you choose to have kids) will be with you. Does your heart ache more for family relationships where you are in the child or the parent role?
It’s also potentially solvable:
Therapy to help you understand and move past the unmet need or fulfill it in another way.
Start transitioning the relationship with your parents. Talk to them about what you’d like to change with them. Be persistent in reaching out and talking about friend-type stuff (at least some of it). Ask them for advice. Invite them into your life.
See if you can build close relationships with SO’s family.
Would you break up with your SO if they had a close relationship with their parents but you dont like the parents or the parents dont like you?
How “important” is your SO’s family to you?
I can’t effectively communicate with my husbands family because we don’t speak the same language. It has never bothered me but I can understand if that was a no-go for someone else.
I don’t think this needs to be a dealbreaker if everything else about your SO is great. It kinda stinks since this isn’t something they can necessarily control or change about themselves. IMHO, no one will be 100% perfect, so I think you need to decide for yourself if this is a must have or a nice to have. Can you see yourself being happy with this person long term and building a life with this person if they aren’t close to their family? Also even if you don’t have a close relationship with your parents or SO’s parents, that doesn’t mean you can’t foster that into your future family if you choose to have kids.
Would you want your SO to break up with you because you weren’t close with your parents?
Something to consider - often we are attracted to people with similar relationships to their family because they “get” us. This isn’t always the case, but you may consider if some of the ways in which your SO is distant from his family may resonate with you if you also are. I think MK1 gave great advice around thinking about how to get this connection elsewhere or building something with your own parents. I think that will serve you better than looking for something like this in an SO - who has no control over it!