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I’m pregnant and haven’t told my bf yet🤭..maybe I’ll wait it out for a few more weeks before I say anything or this could all be just a crazy nerve racking dream🙄😬

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Congrats! You made a future human!! Tell him! I’d want to know if I had a baby cooking. Even if it’s unexpected, he deserves to experience the news and excitement.

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This is great news, if you want it to be. Kids are amazing but they’re also not for everyone. It’s happening in your body but it intimately involves the both of you. Tell him when you’re ready, but make it sooner rather than later. Good luck OP!

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I’m just fat

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@artdirector1 it’s forsure his

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@MD1 yep..😬 I already have an appt. set for final confirmation

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How many weeks, OP?

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Babies and kids are rad. Congrats!

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Congrats

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Yikes!! Accident are no fun and definitely nerve wracking. Hope it works out whichever way you want it to.

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Congrats!!

Is it not his?

@managingdirector1 I just found out this morning

Ah OP so you haven’t seen a doc yet, just peed on a stick (probably 5 times!)?

Wait.. you’re keeping it?

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That’s great news! I think you should tell him sooner than later.

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