I'm really struggling. My company just furloughed some staff and I'm beating myself up about it. I keep thinking maybe there was something I could have done better to get the right kind of leads or maybe I made the wrong call on a pitch that could have brought in enough business to save people's jobs. Anyone else have these feelings? I know its survivor's guilt, but I feel like I've let my coworkers and their families down.

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While I have not experienced this type of thing, you are kind and genuine — the ad world needs more of that.

You have not let them down; the fact that you feel this way and wish you could’ve done more says volumes about your character.


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