I'm recently engaged, worried the salary difference is going to be an issue. I make $180K with a promotion coming, he makes $60K and really hard to get promoted in his industry (pub. school teacher).

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He wouldn’t have become a teacher if he were the type to care. And if you’re the one that cares, you should’ve got hitched to someone else no?

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I would not care if my girl made more money. Why are you thinking about it after getting engaged?

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^^tinder

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Only Americans care about this

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How did you two meet?

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Prenup

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@op thoughts here?? Have thought about this as a guy and even if the gal was great, I think having similar incomes in a relationship just makes things easier

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Like it would be nice to meet girls that are cool w splitting things right off the bat

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^and yes it will be an issue, been there the other way around....just get him to goto business school

I make quite a bit more than my husband for the same reasons. It only matters if it is because one person is lazy/won't work. If both of you are putting out equal effort, the number won't matter.

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