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Maybe this guy is truly 24 hour busy or maybe he’s different, but the guys I know will make time if they’re interested in a girl.
Don't beat yourself up and call yourself stupid. It's perfectly understandable and reasonable to feel put out by this! I can't speak for this guy, but my friend is a doctor and she's very busy. Her infrequent texts aren't related to her feelings or affection, just her priorities do tend to place work over personal matters.
If you're not okay with the frequency of communication, I'd speak up. If he's not willing to compromise and you're not looking to wait around, maybe let this one go. It'll be better for your heart in the long run.
He wasn’t in your life a month ago and now you want to hear from him every day?
What kind of dr? My friend is an ER doc and his busy weeks are literally working, eating, sleeping at the hospital with basically no time for interaction with others.
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He's an oncologist
Communicate, and decide if you’re ok with this level of attention. Some women (myself included) are not, and that’s okay. If he’s not able to give a full conversation each day, let him know that even a check in “morning” or “night” text would help you feel appreciated.
I give him some slack bc he’s a literal doctor and they can honestly have crazy schedules. But I wouldn’t put up with this if it were a normal 9-5 job. A guy who wants to talk to you will make the time to do so.