I’m so bored. My husband of 1 year is the most boring person I have ever been this close to. He doesn’t initiate any activities with me at all and now barely engages in any casual light hearted conversations with me. He works (from home), watches TV a little, then takes a nap at 6pm. It dawned on me that while dating, I initiated more of the fun activities as I’m the more goofy one. He did a bit back then but now he just does nothing despite me bringing it up nicely multiple times. Need advice

Could you please share the MBB salaries for 2nd year associates in London? Considering leaving the US and coming back home.

So KPMG Advisory had the best year in a long time. Company pumped and broadcasting that increase $ are 40% more than normal. How then is the average MD VC 30K?

Was anyone else here considered an "essential worker" during 2020? I feel like I'm still recovering from that year!

On 15mg adderall xr daily for ~1yr. When I’m consistent with it, i notice i lose things less and am a bit more organized, but don’t feel more energized/focused. Should i try something else?

Can anyone give isights of motif works .Is it a worth joining good company.

How about the job security and work culture there

For those that have their own firms, do you mind sharing your overall profit for the last couple of years/practice area? I’m trying to decide if I should open up my own shop. Anyone regret starting their own business? Any and all advice greatly appreciated.

I’ve been hired by a health benefits startup with only consulting experience. Any recommendations for books, blogs, or online course material to get myself as oriented as possible before starting in 2 weeks?

Dinner for the night? Cold, left over pizza that's been sitting in the oven since last night. Pure class.

Hi everyone. Hope everyone is enjoying their audit/tax season. I’m going into my 4th year as an audit partner. Let’s say the firm is in the top 5-10 range. Comp is $365k (draw plus distributions). Haven’t had comp discussions this year, but historically, it’s been 50-60k increases YOY. I’m sure this is under Big 4 salary levels, but for any National accounting firm partners, wanted to get thoughts. Thanks!

What date/month do people receive their bonuses?

Hello Everyone,

Looking for a job in supply chain management having 4+ years of experience, knowledge in SAP MM, SAP ZE1, End user in MDG.

I have always wondered how gay people spot each other lol. Like as a straight woman when I see a cute guy and I just go talk to him. But how do gay people spot each other?

NYC based boutique law firm is looking an experienced immigration paralegal to start asap! If interested dm me.

What is the notice period in TCS while I am on probation?

Hey folks, I’m about a year into my new SE career and looking to continue to invest in professional skills. I’ve obviously been thrown into the fire learning the sales side of things, but what areas (technical skills, certs, books, etc.) you all would recommend I look to invest in? I’ve been looking at some beginner coding boot camps and scrum product owner certs, but interested in what you all have done to further advance your career

I have 30k sitting on a European checkin account. Should I do something with it? (Cont)

Is there a mentorship program for black engineers in tech? I’m a year out of school switching to Data Analytics/Science and finding mentors has been a pretty difficult venture. Thinking about making a LinkedIn group and connecting other black engineers together.

Reached out to an ex after not being in contact for 4 years. Said “Hi, I hope all is well.” No response. Intention was not to get back together (we’re both married now), more to mend fences since we were good friends once upon a time. Was reaching out a mistake?

Couples in relationships: what’s your preference when it comes to splitting the check with your SO on dinner dates or outings with a group of friends?
1- Split on most occasions
2- No splitting, but take equal turns picking up the full tab
3- No splitting, higher earning partner picks up the tab on most occasions
4- Other?

Any other couples rewatch their taped sessions to get through the workday? 😈

Why is it so hard to join a group ? My boyfriend has his group of friends (both males and females) but every time we hang out with them, I feel left out because I don’t have history with them and they all have their inside jokes and stories. He said I need to try more to interact with them but honestly I feel like certain friends mostly his female bestie is trying to not include me. I’ve tried to become friends with her but she’s not putting in effort to get to know me … I need advice.

Hello hello,

Had my induction today at my new company (asset manager). Really liked HR girl who led the meeting, chatted a bit after, loved her smile.

How can I take it to the next step? Was thinking of coffee/grabbing lunch in our canteen, but sounds like a risky move (especially given she's HR..).

Thoughts?

Married folks what learnings and tips would you share with a recent married 30yo woman. I feel i do a lot of heavy lifting, have to tell my husband every time things that needs to be done. He puts in a lot of effort but the lack of planning, proactive ness, self action just stresses me out. He is excited about drinking & eating good food but everything else has to be spelled out. We are yet to discuss financials and how we plan to spend our lives (he moved into my house;i pay all the bills)…cont

When to break-up with someone? I’ve been dating my gf for 6 years (2 long distance 1yr on a break and 3 living together. Nothing terrible about the relationship but I’m not happy and no longer feel in love. I’ve tried working it out but haven’t felt the relationship has gotten any better. I feel at this point the best thing to do for both of us is split (she shouldn’t be with someone that can’t love her fully). So here’s the options continued…

Looking for advice on how to make a third date/hangout go really well. First 2 dates were the same weekend 2 weeks ago. Hasn’t texted much since then except minimal back and forth on snap & texting to make plans for a specific event he talked about.

Our convos have been great in person & I really want to remind him how fun & cute I am tonight despite going to a show. He’s pretty weird in a fun way but also has an old fashioned male ego. Any advice on how to progress would be amazing

Can anyone attest to utilizing couples therapy and if it worked for you and your partner?
My current partner and I have been together almost 5 years, not married or engaged, but since moving in with each other (going on 2 years) we frequently have petty arguments about cleaning, food prep, etc. Just basic stuff when it comes to maintaining a home. Outside of that, the relationship is great.

My husband does not show affection openly and is quite lazy in bed, and I thought I could deal with it because I love him, but it’s really really beginning to annoy me. For example, he refuses to do any foreplay and basically asks that I get on top of him most of the time when we have have sex- if I push him to do anything else he basically just refuses to have sex at all as some sort of ‘protest’. I am finding myself fantasising about an affair more and more

i hve a friend that is really close to me in person but rarely responds to messages. when we see each other in person we talk abt everything and she’s rly responsive. we could be having an intense convo abt several things and she’ll just respond to certain parts and ignore others
we used to be much closer 1-2yrs ago imo. what do i do? i’m a senior in college. tbh i feel disrespected when she just blatantly ignores certain messages that are of importance but i dont wanna lose her
what do i do?

In need of help or advice. GF barely wants to have sex any more. Both near 30s, dating for almost 4Y. First 2 years we avgd 2/week, but now down to 2-3/Month. She seems happy in the relationship but admits she has changed. I’m first/only guy she’s been with and says at first she was more adventurous that now. I’m willing to try new things and try romantic gestures but she is just not interested. Otherwise relationship is great and I would propose, but I don’t want a marriage like this

How to deal with post-breakup guilt? A few months ago I broke up with my college boyfriend of 2.5 years. We had plans to move to a new city together and get married. But as reality set in, I realized I didn’t want to spend my life with him. TLDR; He really let himself go, had no interest in things I found fun, was uncompromising, had a terrible work ethic, delusions of grandeur, unrealistic goals that he put zero effort towards, etc. At the time of the break up his inability to get a job (cont.)

My gf and I are having a big discussion and I would love to get your thoughts on this. It’s about how much we keep in touch and communicate when I’m on the road. She needs to hear from me everyday multiple times and if I don’t answer her texts within a few hours, she can get quite controlling (text over and over again, also on my work phone, asks what I am doing and gets upset). I am not used to that and have the trust if she doesn’t text back, that it’s for good reasons, busy at work…. (Ctd)

Magic Johnson is an amazing pornstar name

can you be friends with an ex? We dated less than 3 mos, have some mutual friends but live in different cities.
We love each other but needed to break up. He had a recent family trauma & other stressors (law school mostly) that initiated the breakup. He couldnt afford to be emotionally present within us and the things at home (which i dont blame him for and fully respect)
I want to support him but also balance my own desires and expectations. Ive accepted we’re broken up fr. ended over 1mo ago

I’m done with online dating. Trash way to meet quality people.

For men, would you be with a woman if she says she wants to wait till marriage?

Need help. Living with my SO of 1.5 years and my parents do not approve. He has a past of getting in trouble for partying (arrested, tickets, etc.) and they think he is still immature b/c (cont.)

Any success stories out there of couples who come from different socioeconomic backgrounds? I’ve heard this difference (statistically) can be a huge barrier to success in a relationship. I’ll add more context in the comments if it helps.