I'm so damaged, I didn't think I can love anyone 😭 but that's what I want most in the world. 🥺

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Girl you aren’t damaged, you’ve just been through a lot. Kind words always 🤍 You are amazing! You just need to work on yourself (as we all do) and you’ll come out the other side shinning 💫

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Thanks friend 🤗

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Therapy?

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Virtual hugs 🫂 but maybe reevaluate your expectations, what I want most in the world right now is to love myself more and more, I used to love others more than I did myself and Im done with that.

And yes to therapy!!!!

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