I'm so into a coworker. She's has the perfect mix of sarcasm/sass to supplement my own. Her drive in work and life is sexy. She mentioned her bf in convo once, few months back only. Advice?

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Don't be a home wrecker?

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Who's cares about bf. They ain't married. Go for it.

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First make sure she still has said boyfriend. One day at the end of day ask her "so, any plans with the boyfriend?" Or you should be like "you should bring your BF to see the accountant" as like a joke. And if she says oh we're not together then make the move if she continues to talk about her BF then jump ship. Do not wreck a home, but make sure there is one first and if not then do it.

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Move on, she has a man

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I typed out something along the lines of don't date people you work with... but I moved cities and I only know people I work with. So maybe give it a try because YOLO

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Tell me how much you like her when she gets promoted and you don't

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Don't do it.

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Agree with Tax Associate 1. She's got a man. If she was looking to leave him she would let you know.

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Yeah, you just tell her she's with a real lucky guy and leave it at that.

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^it should be a deal breaker if she's happy in her relationship. Will make things awkward at work that you're trying to break up a relationship in which she is happy in. Are we even sure that said coworker is even in to OP. He's said nothing on that subject, only that he's in to her and she has a BF. Unsolicited come on here is going to put her in a weird spot. Imagine how uncomfortable she will be going in to work everyday, working with a team member that's come on to her, tried to break up her relationship and who she's not into?

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^?

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would it be that difficult to ask her how the boy friend is? on the face you look like a genuine co-worker interested in her as a person... and you get the information you want, maybe they broke up

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Whatever you DO NOT try to condescend her boyfriend. It'll just make her uncomfortable and you look like a jealous douche.

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Being a home wrecker is dangerous stuff. You never know who you're dealing with. Some people may get violent and people have been beat up / killed for less.

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Added her on Facebook and confirmed I will not be a home wrecker. We are good to launch boys 😏😍

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Ask her to have lunch sometime and then progress it to dinner. Conversation will bring up the boyfriend if he's still there. You can back off once verifying

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Oh and also it's immoral and fucked up Karma

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Cold shower.

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snatch that girl before the bf propose

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Boyfriend isn't a deal breaker. But I feel like you don't know enough about her personal like to be sure she's in to you, getting an unsolicited come-on can be awkward enough without having it be a coworker. Try to see if she'll hang out with you as friends a bit more outside of work to get a better idea before making any moves!

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