I’m starting a new job on Monday and the anxiety I’m feeling today about it is crippling. I’m excited for the role and team but the imposter syndrome is raging.

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On Monday? Girl, enjoy your last week of freedom! The imposter syndrome can wait until you’re on company time.

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Also just went through the same thing and am now three weeks into my new role (lateraled into a different firm)! Know that you aren’t alone - it’s just another one of those adult hazing processes we all experience. You came this far- you got this 🙌🏼

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Im in the same situation (starting at a new big law firm as a lateral) and feel the same!

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Been there! 2 months in to my new role and LOVING IT! You got this!!

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I just went through the same thing. You are not alone and you will crush it ✊🏽 enjoy this week as much as you can.

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I have the same problem but just have to remember you’re new they won’t expect you to know everything plus good opportunity to set the bar wherever you want. It’ll feel more comfortable and manageable over time. Be kind to yourself. Enjoy the rest of the week.

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Love this. This is gonna be me soon. Also lateraling and already super nervous.

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I’m lateraling as well. I couldn’t imagine how much worse this feeling would be if it was a new new role like counsel

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