I'm struggling with the fact that I hate my job, I hate my husband, and I hate how I never seem to have a single moment to relax. Everything is always go go go and I just can not stand it.

I make good money, but to what extent is this worth it? Only to come home to a husband who puts in half the work in every aspect of life and has the audacity to literally be a grouch about everything.
I'm always labeled the happy, positive person and if they only knew how bad I just want to scream FUCK IT!

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You’re burning out! Take a break, a solo vacation!

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I absolutely know I need this, I'm struggling to make it happen.
Hopefully soon.

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Take a few days off, alone or with some girlfriends, go to a hotel/spa and just chill and relax. You deserve some pampering and time to recharge!

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It's definitely something that I need 😭

I second go to a spa getaway for a weekend. Either by yourself or with a girlfriend!

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