I'm trying to get into the dating scene in NYC (looking to date in hopes of getting into a relationship and not for fun) and I wanted to know, in you guys' opinion, what's the hardest thing about dating in NYC?

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The abundance of choice leads to people shopping around a lot and committing a lot less. Dates are very easy to find but relationships tend to be a bit harder. At least this was my experience.

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This x100000000

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The fact most people want the opposite to what you want..if you’re a man it is easier as there’s more options (factually and statistically speaking)

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Because there’s more women than men in the city. More options.

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It's a numbers game. As others have alluded to, if you're a guy it's easier because there are more girls than guys in NYC. You'll also find that not everyone is as committed as you are. That said, it's certainly possible, but just be prepared to spend some time. I met my now fiancée roughly 3 months after hitting the apps, but had tons of dates with others inbetween

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Just do Hinge, significantly better than tinder and people on the app more open to relationships imo

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Lol the average on this site is extremely low in comparison to what you see when on a night out . Best way is to meet people when you’re out and about even in coffee shops, that’s why I love nyc

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Flakiness

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