I'm trying to leave my job in big 4 (2nd yr).

But, I don't feel adequate enough to try for senior positions (even entry-level). I feel so 'cause I see myself as an impostor: I don't know what I'm doing. I went to univ. and I'm ashamed to have trouble remembering certain basic concepts. Somehow I just survived, yet this feeling still remains to this day. It's clear I am not fit to work here. TBH, I think I got it by luck.

I'm frustrated trying to change jobs yet I feel like I'm not good.

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Were you criticized a lot as a kid? I had that growing up and had managed to internalize that voice.

Make sure you don’t give in to that voice. It gets a tad bit easier as you get more experience, but I still feel like an impostor sometimes. You just learn to not give a ton of attention and power to that voice.

Hold your head high, be proud of who you are and work hard. You have your whole life and a very bright career ahead of you!!

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