In a job process where Ive passed all the interviews, but I’m on to the references stage which they take very seriously.

I’m thinking its best to ask folks who I worked under but they have left the firm. Whats the best way to reconnect with folks who I haven’t talked to in 2 years or so? should i be upfront when i reach out that I need a favor, or ask to catch up and then ask over the phone?

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I feel like this is so tough for millennials and younger, always dread it. I usually send an email or text to reconnect and notify them.

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Thats comforting to know im not the only one who feels weird asking for a random favor! Will send a Christmas card or something 😂

You should've done this before using them as references. Just call them quickly. Most people understand. I didn't have anyone ghost me or say no.

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