In this WFH life…Is anyone else’s spouse constantly pestering them for sex? Just because I’m working in the dining room does NOT mean I’m DTF every day. My husband doesn’t seem to get this and it’s annoying me.

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Rest assured, one day he will stop asking you entirely.

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Tell me you’ve been married 5+ years without telling me you’ve been married 5+ years

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Honestly, I wish I had that problem.

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Honestly, I am sorry. It’s a good problem to have, I know. Relationships are hard.

This is the epitome of "First World Problems"

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I thought that’s what this app was for

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who honestly would rather do work than sex?

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In a few years, you’ll miss him asking but for now why not schedule it and put it on his calendar.

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Because then it feels like a task

No my dog and cat are constantly pestering me for pets

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I hope he learns and bails before you have kids.

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Lmao what type of comment is this even. Not everything revolves around sex. Jesus

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Guilty of this at times but definitely not every day.

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Haha my wife does this exact stuff. Like I am busy sometimes and can't just hop off for 30 minutes just cause

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Haha still young 20's

Enjoy the fact he wants you, but let him know to give a few before he engages. That way you set the boundary without hurting his feelings.

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Set the bar higher for sex? Send him to the bathroom to take care of business? Alternatively see if other forms of physical contact satisfy his need for intimacy?

My wife and I realized that we crave physical touch from each other in general. So now we hug for a little longer and cuddle briefly when one of us has a lot of work to do.

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I am definitely being that husband right now. Can't help it. WFH is pretty boring otherwise.

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It is boring. And thanks for being honest. But I’m working on a promotion so I’m more career motivated than he is at the moment.

I get it. It’s awesome and annoying. Communication is key, before you associate impromptu sex with annoyance. And he might miss the hint(s).

It’s what we men excel at. The missing hints piece.

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I wish I have that husband

For the wives who say they wish they had this annoying husband type, is it too much to ask your ages? I’m in my mid 30’s and I’m that “annoying” husband, married almost 8 years. To my defense, if I don’t initiate, nothing will happen. I wash dishes, clean/fold laundry, cook, clean, grocery shop, etc…

Ironic thing is my wife tells me all the time how her bf has been practically begging her husband to give her some sexy time. 🤯

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