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Interested in a girl who vchatted me in 3rd round of an interview. She agreed to meet me for coffee under pretext of networking (company experience, city experience, etc.) How should I approach this?

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English and the language of Love I suppose....

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Sounds like you already nailed the approach

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P2 - you take the comment of the day. I bow to thee

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Treat it as an interview. Nothing more nothing less. Don't wanna get your heart broken twice in one sitting.

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How hot is she?

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Wait until you have the offer/don’t have the offer before making any moves

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DD1 - that’s a no-brainer 😉

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Joking outside, now that you’ve been rejected, I would see what the vibe is like in person. If it goes well, ask her to grab drinks sometime.

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oh... i already got rejected btw... so im clear from that limitation

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OP, did she work at EY? EY3 seems to have some inside info...

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Thoughts on building it up to more than professional aka dating/relationship? I dont even know if shes single, we just basically had a great vchat interview lol...

Shes super attractive, im several years older and we have common fluency in 2 languages

You wanna bone her

nah we both not like that, more about long term, settle down... no boning... heh

Try to find something else in common while talking to her. This will help you transition from professional to personal

I'd move to asking her out and staying out of the friendzone topics. Don't beat around the bush too much.

She’s just not interest at the current moment and current situation but it doesn’t mean later down the road

Treat her like a professional you respect. Let her see you as an impressive person she’d like to have around. If you do this right and there is chemistry you might land a job.

Maybe EY3 IS her. She could be following along...

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