Is a nanny share more affordable than day care? Looks like my husband and I can expect to pay around $1700/month for day care and we are on the list for about 4 places for our baby due in the spring.

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Highly varies but in our area (SoCal) it’s still a premium compared to daycare. Totally worth it though if you find a great nanny, in my opinion. We used a nanny for the first 18 months and then put my son in daycare after that, and it’s worked out really well.

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Good point. We are located just outside of DC in northern VA

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$1700 seems low for the area based on what I’ve heard from colleagues- sounds like a great deal for 5 day a week care

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Try nanny share!

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