Is anyone else super picky about who they get into a relationship with while at the same time feel super lonely and desperate for a relationship?

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I'd rather be single than in an unhappy/unhealthy relationship. Those are even lonelier to be in vs being single.

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Yeah, I was in one of those relationships…where I paradoxically felt more lonely than actually being alone

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That’s why you have to hoe it up until you find the one.

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Yes to the former; no to the latter.

Well, there’s one common denominator.

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