Is it a good idea to talk about your mental health with your SM? My performance has been in a decline for some time now. Sooner or later it may come into focus.

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It honestly depends on the SM. In a perfect world, everyone would be understanding and have empathy but we don’t live in a perfect world.

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I’m worried if I bring it up (due to some recent performance issues) I will be seen as a problem or making excuses. I don’t know what to do either.

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I don’t think you should

I think it depends on your SM.

Mine would give me all the reasons that her life is harder therefore why should I struggle.

No. That's an HR matter

Go to he and get it in record with a doctors note. While he is not in your side, they do have a responsibility to make sure discretion is used and firm protocols followed. So even if you’re not comfortable telling your SM, you can still get protection.

It makes me sad that you don’t feel like you can tell your SM. The advice above is good but also look to change projects and get an SM who cares

Why don't you talk to your counsellor? him/her can help you reach out indirectly to your SM. Also can help you navigate a bit better i.e suggesting some PTO or talking to a partner.

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