Is it bad etiquette to spend less than $50 on a gift? We have a firm holiday party where everyone picks a name and gets a gift for that person, and I don't have a super close relationship with the person that I picked. I grabbed a random bottle of wine (with great reviews) but it isn't a super pricey bottle. There was no price limit but I don't want to look like a dick.

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This is why gift swaps like this should have guidelines/price suggestions! Can you ask whoever is running it?

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I grew up poor, so $50 seems like a lot for a random co-worker I don’t really know.

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Get some glasses to go with the bottle of wine and you should be ok!

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Idk I hate when people gift me glass or mugs because i have a set of everything and really don’t need more junk on my cabinet. I’ll obviously smile and thank the person.

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It’s weird there wasn’t a price guideline. When I’ve had office exchanges, the price limit has been $20-30. Some people go over if they want though.

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Wouldn't worry too much about it...It's the thought that counts. And if the person who receives a decent bottle of wine is a jerk about it, well then they really need a reality check lol.

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Less than $50 On wine is always appropriate because the category is wine/alcohol. Some of y’all just too bougie. 👀😙 #conceitedface

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I think it’s fine. If you want to do something extra that’s relatively inexpensive, maybe an aerator. There are some that can be as cheap as $10. But honestly, the bottle of wine is fine.

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One year I spend a lot of $ getting thoughtful gifts and I was given a mug and a candle. $50 is fine. They really should have put a limit on it

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I mean, $50 is pretty cheap. I think just because your coworkers probably know how much you make I would shoot for $100-$150 dollars. That's just me though

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They are lucky they’re getting anything at all lol. We have obligations even if we do make a lot. I would just say put it on a visa gift card so they can spend how they like

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Very frustrating if there are no guidelines. I would ask people about past practices.

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Are you big law or are you practicing something like consumer bankruptcy? It the latter then $50 is way too much.

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I would be grateful if someone even got me a $25 gift card. That's $25 more than I had lol Don't worry too much

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Same! I’d be happy to get $5 to Starbucks. I can get a coffee or tea for free!

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They should've gave a price range on Secret Santa, it makes it very awkward to shop otherwise, but you'll be fine

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Bottle of wine is good. The goal is to be neither Michael Scott nor Phyllis Vance. 😉

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