Is it better to be a big fish in a little pond or a little fish in the ocean?

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I’ve always observed that the people that want to be the big fish in a little pond are never in as good of a position as the little fish in the ocean and a lot of the time it feels like they’re saying that to try to justify to others why they never took the leap to do more.

I mean, the top performer at a small firm could make $200k+ less starting than the most insignificant and worst performing associate at a big firm, and would have far fewer and less prestigious opportunities for the future.

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A4 what? This isn’t worth my time. You clearly have a chip on your shoulder that logic and facts aren’t going to fix.

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It’s more important to be in a body of water you enjoy. I’d rather be in the Caribbean than the Pacific Ocean, or the pond in my parents’ back yard.

The size doesn’t matter. Your happiness and contentment does.

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For me, if we’re talking about jobs, what mattered was how much that body of water was paying me.

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True that A1.

It's better to be the fisherman.

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You take your shots; sometimes you miss. I can live with that.

I tried moving to a place where I could be a little fish for a few years, and the all the other fish swam away and left me alone with the sharks.

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There’s always a bigger fish

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Small fish if you want to be challenged and learn more

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Better to reign in hell than serve in heaven. - John Milton.

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Totally depends on what your objectives are. For me, little fish in the ocean. I love my job and really enjoy going to work each day. I used to work in a smaller firm (tbf still big law I think) but didn’t like it anywhere near as much. Everyone’s experience is different but for me the switch gave me more interesting matters, more engaged partners and colleagues, more pay. Plus being in the ocean means I may one day grow to be a shark. 😂

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Personal preference.

Neither, most people bothering to think of it that way are just defensive about their path in life or overly optimistic about their ability to rise to the top.

To take the question a somewhat different direction, I have thought about this in terms of going in-house, and concluded I’d rather be in a bigger legal department in that context to insulate me from the business as much as possible lmao

Better to be the fisherman. What are we talking about again? 🤔

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