Is it gonna be weird meeting (by meet i mean probably just see a picture of ) your ex’s babies? My ex’s girlfriend is pregnant and, well, I am reminded of the times we once thought of having a family.

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Why can't you just NOT look at the pictures of your ex's babies?
Unless these babies are being literally shoved into your face to look at, you don't have to "meet" them or "see" them or in any way acknowledge their existence.
You don't even need to know when they are born.

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Yeah maybe don’t make a big deal of it but just be like hey btw, I’m past that point of my life but hearing that news honestly just put me in a weird headspace so if you could just not mention anything on that front going forward I’d appreciate it!

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To your point in another comment that your friend showed you the pregnancy announcement ---- but like, why..? 🤔

They shouldn't have done that, especially if you're no longer in contact or even associating anything with your ex after it ended.

Your friend should've known better. They opened a can of worms you did not need today, or ever.

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This is something I’m not looking forward to in my near future. I might attend therapy just to reorganize my thoughts and emotions about the whole situation.

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❤️ hang in there Takeda

Depends on what your relationship turned into after you split. Personally I wouldn’t care to know or see it and I don’t follow their lives anymore.

No sense wondering with rose tinted glasses about what might have been, because it ended for a reason.

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Why are you making time for this meeting at all? Why keep in touch with a relationship that flamed out?

If you ended on good terms then you can try to get a place of compassion and support for each other, but this just sounds like dwelling over the rubble.

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I’m sorry; it’s hard to see this for the first time.

What are you going to meet/see them?

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