Is it inappropriate to wear an all white top to a (wedding) rehearsal dinner? What about white jeans but colored top?

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I avoid anything white when attending wedding functions as a general rule. So many options/colors to choose from, why take the risk of it being seen as poor form?

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This.

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I would not wear a white top.

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Fair point. I definitely don’t want to upset the bride. Thanks!

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Just avoid white and off white colors altogether. Better to avoid the possible of an awkward situation or being perceived poorly.

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White top or pants are fine I think but not together and no white dresses.

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Definitely not together. Thanks!

Stay away from white all together- it’s the bride’s color for the wedding events. Don’t risk being resented for such a small thing - emotions can run high at these events. Have fun!

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I wouldn't wear jeans unless it's a really casual wedding.

I don't see anything wrong with wearing a white top to the rehearsal. As long as you don't look bridal. If it's a plain white top than it's fine. If it's being od flashy top, I would save it for another occasion

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