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A year is a pretty long time. Imagine yourself in his position, waiting on a response back from you.. you should tell him it’s over. Even something simple - like not feeling compatible, don’t see much of a future, etc - is better than leaving him hanging.
Ghosting is a rude thing to do just to avoid a bit of awkwardness. That person has put themselves out there and made themselves vulnerable to you; if you care/cared about the other person, just be straightforward.
On a larger scale, the things that we do in our relationships teach behaviors for next relationships - after being ghosted, their next relationship they may ghost because “that’s what people do nowadays”.
I think ghosting is warranted in certain situations, but in rhis this case it is not. You’ve been talking for a year!! Come on, you know the answer to this question. You should be open with him and at least give him closure
If I’ve never met you, don’t really know who you are, exchanged only a few texts and am not interested- I think it is warranted to ghost to give indication that I’m not interested. And the other person should get the signal without me having to explicitly explain. And I would be understanding if the other person did the same to me. Neither of us owe anything to each other at this point
If the roles were reversed, would you have wanted him to reach out? I would say just be honest with him. People lose feelings all the time, so just tell him that and if he can’t accept it, that’s on him.