Is it pathetic to feel burnt out after only 8 months at a new firm. Been practicing 9 years. Am in the home stretch to partner and just DGAF anymore. 😩

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It’s not pathetic at all. I totally understand and I am probably irreversibly in the same boat. I don’t know what I’m even good for anymore

I'm 6 months in at a new firm (4 actually working) and burnt out. Got 40k in raises during that time too but the motivation isn't there. Oh well, heading to happy hour ✌️

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