Is it possible to be in love with two girls at the same time? Or am I nuts. I have my current gf whom I’ve been with for 3+ years. But in the other hand there is another girl who has seriously caught my attention and I can’t get her out of my head. Idk what to do.

My boyfriend of 6 months just broke up with me 😔 yeah I know 6 months wasn’t that long but it was one of those relationships where we hit it off instantly. We spent every single day together, talked on the phone for hours, he was literally my best friend and we felt so comfortable with each other. We both expressed that this was a relationship we wanted to eventually become a marriage. We had a few typical relationship arguments but always tried to manage them. (Continued in comments)

Sometimes I wish when you were with a partner, there was a very clear sign that the person doesn’t love you so that you know it’s time to walk away. My partner and I keep having the same problems, and when I express he’s making me feel a certain way he says he didn’t mean it like that obviously. But when i say something and explain that it’s not how I meant it he doesn’t care and proceeds to label me as an unkind person who doesn’t support/love him unconditionally. *continued in comments*

I am driving both me and my husband crazy. We both work from home in a 4 bedroom home pretty decent size. My husband wants to do daycare and id prefer a nanny. Thankfully money isn’t the the concern, it’s more he thinks we’ll be distracted and I am nervous about anti-vax people and rise of polio and whooping cough. We went to a daycare we liked but they did they allowed religious exceptions which makes me uncomfortable. Would love to get feedback.

Anyone proposed to your SO that you dated for under a year? How did that play out in the long run?

Anyone in Dallas?! Need friends

I feel like I prefer American/Int’l men over Canadian men. Mostly because everyone seems to know everyone here. Even in the big cities, it’s a small pond. But being in Canada, that makes for a long distance relationship by default…which most people aren’t into. Welp

The sudden death of a friend has made me realize that my obsession with goals has caused me to miss out on so much of my life. How can I learn to refocus and make time for the people in my life?

I still think of my ex. It’s been 9 months since our breakup. He cheated on me and although I walked away and never looked back, I still wonder how life is treating him. I know I deserve better. Sigh.

My best friend is getting married. I’m very happy for her. But I’m also insanely jealous. She sent me pictures of her wedding dress and while I told her she looks amazing - I can’t stop crying. Her relationship was as long as my ex was cheating on me.

She’s asked me to be her maid of honor - but I want to turn it down so she doesn’t have to see me crying. I already broke down when she told me she was engaged. I was able to keep it together to help her now fiancée do something special.

October is my last month in big law. I can’t tell if I genuinely have more clarity bc I don’t have to convince myself to stick it out, but big law life style is kind of insane. I think it’s nearly impossible to have a balanced life and not be influenced by constant anxiety/stress. Everyone reacts differently and has own reasons for staying, but I hope that those who can don’t have to stay in big law for too long. I’d never want my child to have this job.

After 22 yrs, my wife and I are divorcing. I loved this business so much we grew apart. I hated this business so much I took it home with me. Weekends are for family who love you not agencies who dont

Any good suggestions for ergonomic accent chairs with Ottoman for extended period of working (like all day)? I want to put this in our bedroom as my office room is hijacked by wife

does anyone else ever want to permanently disassociate with their immediate and extended family? we’ve never really gotten along smoothly and even in this time of my need (which is rare) they keep putting themselves first so i’m not exactly sure what’s the point of them being around since my quality of life is so much better without them.

As a divorcee with a kid, i find it extremely hard to find friends who can relate, or even making friends as it seems there’s a stigma attached to you because your relationship didn’t work out.

I've got some friends who work remote jobs, and every day I grow more jealous of them during my one-hour commute.

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

I love watching my 3-year-old's engineering hacks... he wanted to pet the cat so he built a fort out of pillows and waited, now the cat's purring on his lap and they're both asleep

Due to the WFH situation I thought it would be a good idea to get my girlfriend a peloton for her birthday. We’ve been dating for 2 months but she seemed a little bit uneasy about accepting it. I thought it was a good idea but now wondering if it was too much?

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

I'm a product engineer and it's hard to turn off work mode at the end of the day, I think of how products *should* be packaged when I'm shopping and can't understand why my wife doesn't care 🤷

Hey fishes, what tends to be the primary regional focus for firms in France? Is it usually France and francophone Africa?

I feel like I’m my honeymoon period at my new job is ending. I haven’t had any negative incidents, but it just feels like the vibe has changed. Any thoughts on navigating it?

What is the way to get job offer from abroad? Is there are resume is so important to get offer call?

What is the “safest” LBGT 🏳️‍🌈 City 🌃, to buy a home/settle down? I have lived in San Francisco, and open to Atlanta or any other cities.

Are freelance designers actually valued in the field? I've been told a couple times that without agency/company backing, my work means nothing.

👍👍 Need a technical cofounder to help me get an accounting software platform off the ground.

DM me freaks…pls…😀😂😎

10+ years accounting exp, financial stmt audit, corporate acctg, outsourced acctg, the works 🤦‍♂️

Let’s ‘disrupt’ this staid, boring industry once and for all

Hello fishes. Does anyone in this bowl has joining tomorrow in KPMG?

Best Chicago moving companies for 3 guys? Moving from Old Town to Lincoln Park on July 1

Can anyone here tell me if brands like Nike/Apple/Google etc, ever do audience testing with research firms like Kantar?

Almost blueeeeee 😃

Anyone here do drop shipping? Pros vs Cons and is it easy to set up and maintain ?

Hi fishes!

I have 3+ YOE in consulting and looking to transition to PM in the next 6 months. Guess it's enough time to wait out the economic situation and also prepare myself in terms of the knowledge/skills required. Does it make sense to join a startup to make the jump?

Apart from the attributes and skills required, what are the absolute basics I should add to my stack? So far I've identified Google Analytics, JIRA, wireframing tools like Balsamiq, agile. Please add on to these if you know.

Hey guys, can any one help with the TPM interview process at Amazon?

🐟 Web devs - I'm currently part of a 2nd interview panel this week for a frontend dev post internally but I also like to dedicate some time outside of work to review and provide feedback for portfolios, github projects, open source contribs in preparation for any upcoming interviews you may have.

If you're up for that, give me a shout in the comments and I'll DM you.

Snapchat CEO, Evan Speigal, just announced a layoff of 20% of workers across the board.

Good luck to those might be affected.

Who's gonna be listening to Scorpion when it drops at midnight tonight? 🦂🦉

Does anyone have any tips/advice for how to manage budgets and be more efficient... I’m in my first year and I feel like I’m struggling with staying within the allotted budgets for returns...

Does anyone have any experience with buying & renting real estate properties in Florida? Good idea or bad?

I’ve been looking at apartments in Brickell, Miami. This would be used primarily to rent via AirBnB (or a full 1 year lease if I can find a a decent tenant).

Any advice is appreciated.

Thanks all

How do you deal with a toxic colleague?

Everything he says is condescending. He's quite large and seems to be negative overall.

I need like an hour long hug right about now

Ladies: What was your first symptoms of pregnancy? When did you find out?

I'm 27 and I do not have my driver's license. Do you think people will look down on me for this?

So yesterday I woke up with an awful migraine; probably one of the worst I’ve ever had. It just so happened that my wife and I had things planned with the kids, but I literally couldn’t get out of bed. Long story short, my wife is still pissed that I spent most of the day in bed because of how I was feeling, and in her words, I should have just “sucked it up and dealt with it for us.” This pisses me off to no end. And she’s still being in a bitchy mood today on top of it!

My ex whom Ive known for 7 years and cohabited with for 5, is a very good man, helps me cook, clean and watch our 2 kids. That being said, I can’t help but notice how depress I am when he is around. He always seems to be attached to me even tho we aren’t a together anymore. I left the “family home” with the two kids 3 years ago when my depression was starting to affect my parenting. I left him everything we had and started from zero in a new home. But he keeps coming back 😣.

Do you ever feel that you have achieved everything in life and you have nothing left to live for?

When I was young, I had ambitions. I have passion. I have energy. And there are so many things I want to do, I want to achieve, I want to experience.

But nowadays, I feel like now that all of those are there… I can’t seem to find what’s the next big thing to chase after…

Does one have to attend a bachelor or bachelorette party? Especially when it involves traveling or a trip? What are good reasons to not go? And how to go about it ? I hate to say it but I don’t want to spend my money on a trip just because I’m part of the court in a wedding. So any suggestions ?

Does anyone else ever wake up from a nap with the deep burning rage of a thousand suns? If yes how do you calm tf down ☠️

I was today years old when I learned that H&M stood for Hennes & Mauritz 🤣

I started at 63k out of college in 2017.

Sometimes I keep a jar of hotdogs on my desk because it reminds me of my childhood. I don’t eat them, I just smell them as I work.

I'm with a 26 yr old woman who decides what she does (where she travels) based on how her dad feels about it. He's an anxious person who worries about her safety. We live in different states. I'm ready to settle down and make a future. Shes worried about her dad's feelings (for the record, I value family, too). Thoughts?

I don’t have many regrets, but not investing in BuzzChat is definitely one of them.

Keep pp pics on my phone just incase to punish the firm for snooping

Real estate agents or virtual assistants urgently needed send me a direct message

I moved from FTE at a big brand tech company to a contract role in a smaller big tech with an aged brand. It's a good move because I'll learn a ton in the new org and now actually have better career prospects. Still, the brand and stigma for contracting are making me feel insecure :/

My fiancé wants to invite his ex girlfriend of 9 years cousin and wife to our wedding am I over reacting that I think it’s really weird and I DO not want them to come.

I'm addicted to Korean bbq chicken. I can eat a whole box and I'm 90 lb