Is it too much to ask to stay with my SO for a week, we are LDR. If he doesn’t like it, is it a deal breaker?

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Uh wut? Yes deal breaker. He better have a damn good reason why he wouldn’t want you stay with him for a measly week.

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Can’t emphasize enough how strange this is. I’m in a similar length LDR and I often spend the week with my BF and work from his house (current project is remote).

He only wants to see you once every 2 months?! Um hate to break it to you, but it doesn’t sound like you’re in a LDR, it sounds like you’re a regular booty call.

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The issue in a LDR should be not seeing each other enough, not seeing each other TOO much.

Very major red flag if he’s against more frequency / length of time together. How would you ever maintain a relationship in the same city when you could see each other all the time??

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Tell him boy bye

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Read “Attached” — he sounds avoidant.

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