Is it wrong to have sex with someone after a break up of a 3 year relationship?

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Is it wrong? No. Is it dumb? Yes.

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It’s a rebound.
Walk into it knowing exactly what it is.

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Why would you? You’re not together

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As long as it’s consensual, no. Don’t know if you’ve heard the phrase: “the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else”

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I’m going through the same thing… my advice don’t do it.
Especially if there’s a chance you and your ex will get back together don’t do it it will cause a hell of a lot of problems trust me!

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Do what makes you happy as long as it’s consensual. Stop seeking validation from us on this forum. Therapy could help you too. Good luck with your life mate!

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Please define what “breakup” here means. Is it temporary break, permanent split and the reasons for it.

Then why worry about getting back?

Is it a Ross and Rachel type, "we were on a break", break up? Or a breakup for good?

For good

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