Is there anyone else who doesn’t fast during Ramadan? I haven’t come across any other friend of mine. Told this to one of the friends and got quite a nasty reaction.

Does your spouse go to late work dinners? Their firm does not allow them to bring spouses ?

Idk what to do anymore. A few years back I struggled with gambling addiction and put myself in so much debt and never told anyone. Fast forward I have a gf who thinks I’m successfully but I am drowning in debt still that I truly don’t know how I’ll get out of. Can’t keep up with bills and put this front up much longer. Absolutely miserable

Hi everyone, first timer here. Having some issues w. our 4 yo being pushed around and bullied at preschool. He’s really sad and upset. He’s also super shy & introvert. Any advise? Pep talk? Discuss with teacher?

Best self-care tips for dealing with loneliness/sadness this time of year? This is my first Christmas without my mom and it just feels like nothing will ever be the same again 😭. If you’ve lost a parent can you give me advice on getting through the holidays? Being a parentalish figure to my students is both healing and heartbreaking.

I am trying to decide what kind of keepsake type gift (necklace, tennis bracelet idk) for my girlfriend for Christmas. Or is that a bad gift (what should I get)? Been dating 1.5 years.

I would like to share my situation and use some advice. Second marriage for wife and I and both have a kid each from our first marriages. I have never been able to have any feelings for my step son. He does not have a father in his life. My son has a Mother (my ex) . All this has impacted my relationship with my wife. I love my son and it clearly shows on day day activities. I just can’t fake it. Love my wife a lot. It is not about money but emotions that I don’t have 4 my step son. Any advice?

Trying to save $$ & replace expensive wine bar habits w/ good. Single people - what do you do if you want to be around people but don’t want to spend lots of $$ drinking / eating bad things at night?

I’m noticing I have really low motivation lately as far as work is concerned. Are there any other mothers to be struggling with this right now? I’m currently 16 weeks

When my parents call I don’t answer and call back 4 hours later. I tell them I’m busy but I’m just hanging out here in FB, playing ps5 or online shopping.

My ex husband was an extrovert and alcoholic. He went out with drinking buddies or anyone who would join him several times a week. We grew apart. Why is love so blind? It should have been obvious...

I suspect that my dad is cheating on my mum again, he has history of a long affair when I was still a kid. I want to confront him to be sure, but my mum lacks financial security. What should I do?

Father who’s living in my home country is transferring an apartment ownership to me. Should I be worried if this is some sort of a signal, maybe about his health? Also what do I need yo be aware of legally and financially?

Been only 3 days but I miss my BF 😢😭 why am I so needy 😂

What's the best way to help a student catch up after a while away from school? I have a student who missed 3 months (Aug-Nov) whose coming back next week and I feel like a packet to take home just isn't enough. We're almost two lessons ahead of where we were, and I don't know how they're going to catch up while staying on track with what we're learning right now.

Fantasy you have never told anyone?

If you had a walkout basement in your house, would you let your teen sleep in the bedroom there? If so, at what age? The basement itself if fully completed, living room, kitchen, bathroom and bedroom.

First-gen grad students, does your family put pressure on you to succeed? It feels like our relationship is them just bugging me about my work. I’d love some advice, I miss my fam.

I’m 27 and think I’m starting to resent my girlfriend that I’ve been dating since I was 18

How much do Certified Medical Assistant make for Primary Care?

I’m having a really hard time dating—would appreciate advice on how to find someone who makes me happy. Contemplating moving but am not sure if that is going to change things for me. Been in DC (cont)

Would you live in a 5th floor walk up? Everything else is great, but if I’m drinking the last thing I want to do is walk up 5 flights of stairs… thoughts?

Poll: Whats your TC and age, and how much do you typically spend per item of clothing / accessories? Ladies in particular

How realistic is the 20 30 50 rule in NYC?

Outside of 5/3 (already have an account), recommendations for checking accounts that are offering a sign-on bonus?

Hi
I just got offer from qatar
They are offering me 128000 qatar currency
I am not sure about it ..should I negotiate ?
My YOE IS 7 years and in sap successfactors lms / learning and development specialist

I am little skeptical coz it's my first overseas and other thing is I m a woman so in terms of life and safety so idk what to do

So many questions

Pwc is filing for GC under EB2 I guess for me. Will the firm file EB1 later if I leave the country, work as a manager abroad and return to the US after a year?

Any changes their status from H1 to H4 recently? How long does the process take?

Hi folks,

I got the verbal offer from Oracle and I have shared the documents with Walmart,

Role : Test Automation Engineer ( Selenium,Java)
YOE: 6.7 year

From my understanding from the interviews, my roles will be more or less same in both companies.

May I know, if you are in this similar situation ,which one you would prefer? Pls help

Hi guys,I am a Digital Marketing beginner and have 1 year experience in digital marketing and analytics.i am looking for a job in Bangalore with a decent salary around 3LPA.if anyone can refer me any company kindly dm me

Do you ever feel like you’re not allowed to vent about a bad day? I feel like we can’t just vent and chalk it up to a bad day and move on. If we are overheard saying anything than sunshine and rainbows you have to be scared of admin coming down on you - as far as written up for being unprofessional. Is it like this everywhere?!

What’s one free/cheap tool or resource that changed your law practice?

Any tips on how to acknowledge there might be hiring freezes to gain rapport with an interviewer? or push for an offer sooner?

i.e. “I know that there are several hiring freezes going on now so I understand…however..(?)”

Salam everyone, I’m looking to move to NYC. Let me know if anyone is looking for a roommate

I feel like being a consultant has made my standards for finding a significant other go up astronomically lol now I expect them to be a similar standard as my coworkers which are smart, pretty, social and also same level of religiousness as me. I understand why everyone struggles to find an SO now

Any of the males in this group feeling attacked on here? Disturbing!

Opinions: Stay in the West for a few more years to get more experience and passport, or move to ME to be closer to somewhat elderly parents (who would much prefer life there than in the West) ?

I'm considering a move to Sacramento. How active is the Muslim community, specifically the young professional pop?

Has anyone come to you for help?

Remember that these people asked Allah first, and Allah gave them your address for you to help them.

Is there any Muslim organizations at Deloitte?

Anyone going to ICNA this year and looking to split a room?

How do you all block calendars for jummah? Is it better to show as OOO or as busy?

Anyone have any book recommendations on Islamic history?

I’m looking for something beginning from the first prophet (pre Islam I guess?) to full revelation. Looking to get a timeline understanding. So I guess some Jewish and Christian stuff would be in there too.

It’s scary how little I know

How soon after marriage do guys start demanding kids? Asking for a friend

Any recommendations on books or talks or videos I could share with a friend who is inclined towards Islam but hasn't accepted yet?

Thanks!

How many Muslimahs here know shortcuts to make pakoras? Please help a brother (in Islam) out. Thanks 😋

Folks who invest in broad index funds and plan to purify their investments: how do you calculate the percentage of haraam vs halal investments? Haven’t found a ton of good resources for doing so

What do you think is the most important problem to solve for Muslims in the US? Now and say 5 years in the future. Other than relationships and marriage 🙄 Would love to hear from experienced (40+) folks too.

Jummah Mubarak Fam ☪️💚