It makes me unreasonably angry when I spend my time explaining everything I know about something for a coworker (about one of THEIR tasks, nonetheless, not mine) and the response is either to set up a meeting or to call me. 🤦 Like I’ve told you everything I know about it. Cool, we can call and I’ll read to you what I wrote, but I’ve typed it all for you, not sure what good you think a call is gonna do. I literally know nothing more than what I already wrote and now you’re hindering my work.

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Think I got it now but I’m just gonna put a brief call on the calendar for tomorrow morning to touch base. Thanks!

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Maybe share what you know and end the email with, “if you have further questions, I recommend reaching out to ___, since this is their area of expertise.”

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Ideal! I love this idea, I will absolutely do that.

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Many thanks for the perspectives shared here. Sounds like I probably need to not overextend myself and if I’m not the one who knows about something, just say that and redirect them and move on! I suppose there’s a difference between enabling someone to be lazy and being helpful, so I’ll bear that in mind moving forward.

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If it’s not your problem to solve, don’t try so hard in solving them. Be a team player of course, but if they care enough, they would reach out and ask you for help.

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Ever thought that you might not be good at explaining something to your coworker?

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Oh I’m sure I’m not, in this case. I’m not the person they should be asking, it’s not my area.

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Send an email explaining stuff, and end it saying to setup time with you or clarify any open questions.

If they shouldn’t have asked you, direct them to a more appropriate person. I will do this when I start getting questions from people I am not responsible for helping - will shoot a message to warn the appropriate person im sending someone their way!

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