Its been 10 months since I got married, my wife is pregnant and now at her house, we are not able to communicate, we don't have a topic to talk. Need suggestion.
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You dont have to find a topic to talk. Any specific reasons why she isn’t with you? Send her some gifts, baby dresses plan a maternity photoshoot.
If you both are not together at a place have video call everyday ask her to show her baby bump and take screenshots. Create a nice collage with these daily/weekly memories.

It’s gonna be a bumby ride so be prepared:)
I have two kids 4YO and 8 Months and to be honest I dont even get time to go for a pee :p

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Hey you are moving into parenthood and you don't have topic.. How come?

Atleast you guys can talk about the baby...

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You have too many topics to talk... Her diet, baby movements, doctor advice, consultation what you guys are expecting girl/boy, name advice bla bla long list...

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Lot of things to talk about...
Routine checkups
What supplements has been given by doc
Any discomfort shez feeling
Diet
Cravings
Sleep pattern
Exercises suggested by doc
What's her daily routine looks like..
Also shez at her parents house, I would suggest tht u motivate her for walking everyday cz mostly girls dnt work much during this time and then later doc says need to go fr c sec..And c sec recovery TKS a bit longer than normal.

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