Its been 10 months since I got married, my wife is pregnant and now at her house, we are not able to communicate, we don't have a topic to talk. Need suggestion.
I’m currently 7 weeks pregnant, so it’s still too early to make any announcement. I don’t have to work since my husband takes care of bills and since I got laid off with covid happening, there were no jobs to apply to. Now people are reaching out to me or I do see job postings that I would love to apply to, but if it gets to the point where I am offered the job, do I tell them I’m pregnant right away? Would they not want to hire me anymore? ￼￼￼I want to be honest
Anyone have experience (or have friends) with a kiddie academy daycare? Potentially transferring my child to one in ohio when we move. New daycare in that area so don’t know anything about it.
If I decide to quit my job after maternity leave, does anyone know how much I have to reimburse to my employer for the FMLA health insurance they paid? And how long do I have to stay at the company post my maternity leave to avoid such reimbursement payment?
Considering a move to Florida to follow my mother who moved south almost 2 years ago. Anyone able to do a referral for Disney or somewhere else? Looking for higher level management positions 10 YOE . The Walt Disney Company
Just found out I'm pregnant with second! Excited and nervous about life with two young ones (first will be 2 yrs old by the time second arrives). Wondering how the heck I can continue this job??
Anyone else stuck in a job because they don't want to lose maternity benefits?
I'm actively looking to have children. Medical advice tells me not to put it off at all, it's now or potentially never.
I have been approached about new jobs, have found jobs that are perfect but they don't offer anything above the statutory mat payments unless you have been there for a year or two at least. As the main breadwinner stat payments would be devastating for us.
Anyone else stuck?
Pregnant with my first baby and I’m having the WORST sciatic nerve pain. I had a back injury with nerve damage when I was in my early 20s and at 18 weeks pregnant, it’s almost unbearable. I’ve increased my prenatal workouts like yoga, Pilates and walking because my doctor said that helps but it’s not helping. Any advice from the momma fishes? 🙏🏻
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Even after 6 years of marriage I don't like my husband at all.
Can't/won't Divorce him coz I am a coward and won't be able to face judgements
Although I'm already being judged for not having a kid yet
I don't want a kid with this guy so just can't go ahead with it
How do I keep myself happy being in the marriage?
So he is still alive? That was a waste of a suspenseful teaser. And obviously someone was a big baby toda fan.
Got married too early (6months) with a narcissist “love bomber”. Didn’t know what love bombing was, never had dated a narcissist before, and I thought I had found the one. I’m 4 months pregnant and
Things to do in or around Los Angeles with a baby over the next 2 weeks?
Happy to drive 4-6 hours and stay overnight. Or just day trips? Thinking of San Diego zoo or driving to Phoenix or Vegas or Zion. Or stay closer to LA?
Just brainstorming with this awesome bowl
My wife is 19 weeks pregnant and just caught the common cold. Was advised to not take Nyquil/Tyenol as not pregnancy safe and she already has lower immunity because of the baby. Should I be concerned? Is there any risk to pregnancy? Extremely worried. Was told to rest and wait it out.
Talk to me about going from 2 to 3. I feel like 3 kids is such a rarity in this industry that it’s daunting to make the leap. I don’t know a single person in my office with 3 kids. I worry 3 is going take our lives from semi-manageable chaos to complete anarchy. But… I think we want a 3rd. My kids are young (toddler and baby), and if we do go ahead we’d want to do it in the next year or so.
How much do senior level brand designers make at Amazon?
And if you work there or have worked there, what are the pros/cons?
What is the culture like? Any benefits? What bonuses? Paternity/maternity leave? Vacations? Anything!
Something I used to do with my father before he died was fixing his home garden. Thanks to that now whenever I get a new property to sell I dedicate myself to fixing the garden before showing it, I learned to do it very fast and very aesthetically. Have you ever fixed houses by yourself to improve sales?
I found out that I’m pregnant rather unexpectedly. Still early, but I’m only 27 (married) and am wondering how this is going to affect career trajectory. We were going to have kids, just not for a bit
I’m feeling down. 😢 After 3 failed IVFs with the last one ending in a chemical pregnancy I sought the opinion of a second fertility doctor. She said given my age of 45, my husband and I had the same chances of getting pregnant with another round of IVF with my own eggs as I would naturally and wouldn’t move forward with IVF, only with egg donor. My AMH is 2.6 and FSH was 7.4 just this past month. Should I ignore her and seek a third opinion? Not quite ready to go down the egg donor route yet.
Anybody else here quarantined with an elderly parent and you’re the sole caregiver? How are you staying sane?
The toughest part of my day is leaving my baby in someone else's care when he is sick. Balance it's such a unicorn. I am considering a LOA just to spend more time with my baby. I feel so guilty.
Can we increase the Hra amount while filing the return?
I have paid lumpsum amount to my parent as the rent.
My 7 year old son really struggles with falling asleep at night and it's leading to gim nit getting nearly enough sleep. It just started in the oast few months and he says things like he "has too ...
Any one got revised offer letter (With increase in CTC) three days before the DOJ. If yes, is this a automatic revision that CTS does for all the lateral employees ??? . Thanks in Advance.
Any advice for women going into a male-dominated field? People always have something to say, and they try to make it sound challenging, so I’m wondering what I can do to have a better experience.
Do you things were better when celebrities had strict marketing and media teams? Coonye's latest rant made me think about this. I mean celebrities have always said out-of-pocket things but I feel like in the 90s and 2000's it was less frequent. Maybe it isn't a great idea for every famous rich and powerful person to be able to share whatever they want whenever they want in 240 characters or less.
Always in search of the perfect nude. Anyone have experience with this brand? https://www.linkedin.com/posts/black-enterprise-women-of-power_founder-of-black-owned-luxury-nude-footwear-activity-6972535338107830273-ZWwa?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_ios
I received a background/credit check today from a woman who had an eviction, poor credit, a (minor) criminal record and barely made enough money to afford the unit. I feel badly for her as she needs an apartment in like a week or so but at the same time I’m not a charity. Sigh.
I'm moving to the UES and need to pick a new Equinox to be my club. Anyone know if there are major differences or any to stay away of the following: E61st, E63rd, or E73rd?
Snacks on snacks 🧁🍪🌮🍕🥞🥓🥧🍺
Few things unite paid social peeps like the fresh hell that is Sprinklr. I no longer work with it on a regular basis, but every once in a while I shudder remembering the rage I felt trying to bulk build ads or pull reporting in the dashboard, especially on the rare occasions I had to work on weekends. Does anyone use it for paid and actually love it??
Hi Fishes, Which has better future Test Automation or Business analyst? Currently I am working as 60% manual+ 40 % automation. Also I am working in banking domain from last 3 years. But really confused , what path will be better for my career. YOE-3.3 CCTC- 7.5 LPA
Does Deloitte increase pay after showing counter offer ?? What are the chances of re negotiation for an analyst??
Partners. Do team members just come and go from your perspective? Feeling very disengaged and demotivated… do leaders actually care to talk people through these low points in their careers or is this something we need to figure out on our own? Want to talk it out but feeling like a burden more than anything.
I'm a staff working directly under a senior manager. I lack a deep understanding of tax laws and programs and I'm getting my chops busted for not knowing. It's discouraging and idk what to do.
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You dont have to find a topic to talk. Any specific reasons why she isn’t with you? Send her some gifts, baby dresses plan a maternity photoshoot.
If you both are not together at a place have video call everyday ask her to show her baby bump and take screenshots. Create a nice collage with these daily/weekly memories.
It’s gonna be a bumby ride so be prepared:)
I have two kids 4YO and 8 Months and to be honest I dont even get time to go for a pee :p
Hey you are moving into parenthood and you don't have topic.. How come?
Atleast you guys can talk about the baby...
You have too many topics to talk... Her diet, baby movements, doctor advice, consultation what you guys are expecting girl/boy, name advice bla bla long list...
Lot of things to talk about...
What supplements has been given by doc
Any discomfort shez feeling
Exercises suggested by doc
What's her daily routine looks like..
Also shez at her parents house, I would suggest tht u motivate her for walking everyday cz mostly girls dnt work much during this time and then later doc says need to go fr c sec..And c sec recovery TKS a bit longer than normal.