It’s been a year at the firm… kinda getting tired of kissing ass…what do I do?

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Use your tongue instead of your lips

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Does that include the crust P1?

Be the first to get on your knees

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Try kicking ass

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It takes more than a year to be accepted in the club anywhere. Just give it time. Deloitte culture is more cult like, so perhaps 15 months so would be a good time to check in

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Felt like I did a version of kissing ass for the first 5 yrs. Said yes to everything. Worked my butt off. Ended up changing when I had first kid. Said no far more because the baby meant I couldn’t do more. Funny thing was I did 30 percent less stuff and no one noticed or cared. No impact to reviews. More enjoyment for me as I chose what I wanted to work on (mostly!). I learned that I put a bunch of the pressure on myself to “kiss ass” and a bunch of it was unnecessary. My two cents is to figure out the things you want to do and do them. Skip the kissing ass. Be yourself. If we can’t figure out how to appreciate you for you then that’s our fault.

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Differentiate yourself by being better than others instead of kissing ass harder

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It’s hard when everyone is trying to differentiate + kiss ass

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