It's hard to be a single mother especially when you have no children and are a man in his 20's.

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Your statement is not fully false

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Are you transitioning to female?

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Say that again please. I might be stupid

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Can you explain this to me? 😳

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Caityln, is that you?

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Try again when you wake up and are sober

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Try harder

Hysterical!

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