It’s interesting to see conversations around age gap on this thread. I am 44F and get approached by younger guys who want to date older women. Most recently by 28M and he seems mature and level headed. Knows where he is and where he is going, doesn’t want kids, etc. Although our goals align, I am not able to come to terms with the age gap but he thinks we should give it a try. I would like to hear this group’s opinions on this. TIA

Me: “You’re gonna marry me one day!”
Him: “If I play my cards right, you’ll say yes to me one day!”
Me: 🥹🥹🥹 (and that was after I queefed in his face when he went down on me. Yep, I’m the person who posted that just the other day in the “most embarrassing in bed story thread. Y’all should go join in on the fun and read some crazy funny stories😂)

How do I politely hint at a guy I have just started seeing that he is moving to fast? We have only been seeing each other for a couple of weeks and not had any sort of exclusiveness discussions or anything but he is texting and expecting replies multiple times a day (I am currently on vacation away from the city we both live in), planning trips together in several months, letting me know how much he likes and misses me several times a day. I like him but I am starting to feel very overwhelmed.

I went to a masseur in LV last week and this massage turned sensual. He texts me today saying he’s HIV + undetectable and he tested positive for gonorrhea yesterday. This was my first such massage experience and I feel my world has fallen apart. Our genitals touched and kisses. I did my tests this morning and waiting for results. 😌😌 why didn’t he share this before booking an appt! 😭

All our boy friends in common keep telling me that he has a crush on me but yesterday when we were hanging out with some friends and they asked him about his crush he said " I don't know I think maybe I liked a boy instead of a girl". That made me confused is there something wrong I'm doing? Does he think I'm boyish or is that a common teasing technique ?

What is the etiquette for when someone offers to let you crash at their place for a night?

Datejust owners: that fluted bezel looks like a scratch magnet to me. Does it get ruined after the first kiss with a door?

I feel like I wouldn't get many tips as a server because I'm a guy, is this really true or am I just making it up?

How do you manage to find someone to date 🥹

Any female fish interested in connecting? Male here, 29, NJ.

Not work related but how is the dating scene like in Chicago?

In Chicago for the weekend. Any guys interested in a date, drink, coffee, or more?

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

Hi Everyone
I am planning to do a short bike ride today evening to Lonavala
Any F interested to accompany me?

Anyone wanna chat with me tonight, if you're bored. M/33 😄😉

does anyone have recommendations for first date ideas around the LA area? 🙏 (trying to stay away from crowds and social distance too)

Any single 30s girls here want to get together for a girls’ night out?

I’m 27 years old, fit, cute, very well educated. Looking for a serious relationship!

How do I get out of a date?

Any single Bengali lady in this bowl? 👀

Just began studying for the CFE exam. I have access to past editions of the ACFE Fraud Examiners Manual. Does anyone have recommendations on where to get good practice questions? I’d like to avoid spending a fortune on the ACFE kit.

Hi, looking for advice on thoughts going JAG. I've just started my first post-law grad legal job at 100k but have previously signed a letter of intent for JAG to ship out for training next April. My thoughts were if I truly wanted to keep the current job, I have until enlistment day to fully commit. Though I have just started my new job I want to move forward keeping this thought/decision at the front of my mind. See more in comments

Seeking any advice from current or former JAGS.

How much tip should I give a team of movers who are packing and unpacking all of my belongings and transporting them almost 200 miles?

Hello everyone,

Can someone pls guide me about the relocation parameters within FIS. I work out of India location and applied for IJP for London as my husband is moving there. In parallel my team came back saying they want to retain me and willing to create a position in London but that will involve alot of approvals due to increased cost. Can someone suggest if this is possible or not and which option would be better for me? Also, do FIS provide tier 2 worker visa for such transfers?

Agency fish who have their yearly reviews soon, whatcha thinking? I chatted with a few coworkers who have theirs coming up... a lot of them seem concerned about how much leverage they will have with rising inflation, economic downturn, and rising layoffs.

For those in the same boat, what are you hoping for? If you get a merit or promotional offer - did you plan on negotiating? Or are you going to take what you get and try to stay under the radar just in case layoffs are coming your way?

Wiproites For and Band B3 employees , will we receive 100% variable in august for Q1 ? Or will it be less ? Any managers to share details pls?

I already have an interview set up but was wondering if you think it would be helpful to gather referrals to internally submit? Appreciate the guidance

Hi Fishes,

I will be joining HCL next month... I got a mail requesting professional reference details like name, contact and email id from my previous employers... I worked in Infosys 9 years back... None of my friends works there was now... Any advice on how to do handle this?

Max beating Micheal Schumacher & Vettel with 14 Grand Prix wins in one season , GOAT 🐐

Moving to LA for a job, won't have to be in the office more than 1-2 times a week. Any areas to look into? Don't want to live downtown, would prefer some green space if possible - I have a dog. Maybe in the $2.5-$3k range?

Any recommendations for international relocation companies? We'd be moving from the midwest back home to the UK. Any other advice for a transatlantic move would be much appreciated!

Experienced profile 13y currently in internal consulting at bank.Considering moving into management consulting in the ME.Feasible?What would the challenges be? Which consulting firm would make sense?

Anybody moved to Dubai from London in consulting - would love to hear your thoughts in differences. Getting bored of London life here and curious of Dubai (visited a few months ago)

So I was fired yesterday. I’m choosing to see this as an opportunity to make some changes, instead of just jumping into another law firm job I’m not cut out for. Does anyone have recommendations for career coaches, ADHD coaches, or ideally someone who does both?

Anyone on here working at Credera? If so what's the second stage interview like?

Anyone here from Accenture Applied Intelligence? Need some info.

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

Anyone wanna chat with me tonight, if you're bored. M/33 😄😉

Wonder how badly lop sided (Men to Women ratio) this bowl is?

I am visiting LA. What are the places I can visit and explore? I enjoy visiting cities and like to find hidden gems and not necessarily run of the mill tourist spots.

Appreciate guidance from the fishes here, 35/F

Female here. Had a very successful first date recently - several hours long, interesting conversation, great chemistry. I felt a special connection and thought it was mutual. It’s been a long while since I’ve been excited about anyone and thanks to corona, it’s been a while since I’ve been in male company period, so I really want to accelerate things (see each other again soon) and not play it slow. He declined my offer to meet up today and didn’t seize the opportunity to make alternate plans.

Any single ladies looking for a handsome cub? 😉😘 DM 28AZ

Is it too much to ask someone to go away for the weekend for a fourth date? We've had three really great dates before and she's spent the night so I feel like it's ok, but I don't want to scare her off. Thought a lake-side cabin thing would be romantic but my sister says that's sometimes a red flag, so also asking what's an appropriate place to go/stay. Should I pick a hotel instead?

This bowl needs to quiet down. Way too much commotion going on up in here!

i he/she says they want something "casual" doest it hit and go?

I had higher expectations for this bowl. You’re in your 30’s/40’s and looking for a hookup? 😒

Any F in Austin would like to catch up for a lunch over the weekend?

Just got out of a 5 yr long term relationship. I’m just realizing how awesome the 30+ dating pool is. Everyone is established, got their shits together, no time for games, and we are treating each other like adults. I love my 30s !

Single and looking to change that. 40F, Toronto. Ex-consultant if it matters 🙃.

Any Female 🐠 from San Francisco Bay Area
Want to join me ( M 43) in Monterrey/ Carmel-by-sea for a weekend getaway!