It’s so hard not to be negative around my team members below me when I’m treated like shit by those above me. Trying to be the change the team needs but feels like I’m fighting a losing battle.

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Sorry to hear. It shall pass, just be patient, everything tends to end. You could also confront the people above you and tell them how they make you feel. Raise the issue with your coach if things get to be unbearable. This job sucks as it is to have to tolerate a-holes on top of that.

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I was in the same situation recently and communicated the issue with my counselor. After filing, I was taken off of that client and given work that I’m excited about. Had to grind through it for a few weeks but it was worth it in the end

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Very discouraged this morning

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Change starts with you!

Try to find a friend on the team. It's a amazing what that can do for your happiness :)

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