I’ve been getting ghosted a lot. Can’t help but think I’m the problem at this point.

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On de apps or bye recruitrs?

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Eggzackly, it gotta b -hard- 4dem2 sustainn interestt 😔 def aint rite tho 🤧

People are flakey. There is an illusion of choice with dating now on the apps. It’s not you. Did you meet these people on apps? We are only responsible for ourselves and what we put out there. So obviously we have to work to know ourselves and put the best we can out there. But there are many other factors.

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A lot of ppl rage swipe, and it’s unfortunate. It isn’t you. It’s a numbers game 🤗

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Same🥺🧐

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Always like to see someone point the thumb and not the finger and try to grow/improve. Having said that, modern dating is a minefield.

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