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I’ve been hanging with a coworker and their significant other a lot lately and I’m starting to get a crush on my coworker’s partner...and I think it might be mutual bc there’s a slight sensual tension whenever it’s just the two of us talking I left out gender on purpose just in case my coworker is on here lmao

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And this folks is why you don’t take in strays.

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Cool, don’t be a home wrecker

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Please take a cold shower and find other people to hang out with.

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I’m rarely negative on here, but you suck SA.

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I was gonna say genders could be helpful. If you’re a guy and it’s the coworkers girlfriend she could just be nice

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Regardless of genders.... they could just be nice and OP desperate and seeing what they want

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Op is def a F

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SC1 - adult men rarely talk about having "crushes"

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Maybe they're both interested. Poly relationships are pretty common these days

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This ^^

I didn’t even do anything/said I was going to do anything?????

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Yeah I’m with PM1. If the temptation is there, avoid it like the plague. Your coworker brought you into their home. You should stay loyal to them, and can remain friends but don’t hang out with the both of them.

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Lol 🙄 lmao

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