I've been on dating apps so long I recognize other long termers. Those people who are always still on there. Years have gone by and I'm familiar with their face. Might have tried talking to a few of them. The guys usually turn out to be creepy. Then there's me... Yeah I wonder why I'm still on there. There really must be a problem. Just ended a 3 month.

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Feel you and feel almost the same.

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Ditto here.

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I just re-upped after years off of dating apps (took a break from dating altogether). Same folks then and now, just like me. Same outcomes too of nada. It’s really defeating.

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Try meeting people in person, new friends are a good safe way to get to know yourself and others. Volunteer and give your time to an organization, you are bound to network yourself into a healthy relationship.

When all else fails pray...🙏🏾

Good luck🍀

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The in person part is hard w COVID. I have been investigating alternatives. Depends what state you live in. Arizona never shut down but California did.

Same

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In the dc area. It's possible to have a coffee and a walk outside but hard to get into new activities right now. Would rather not risk it

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Are you in a small area? Maybe try different apps or taking a break from them. I agree with the other recommendation to try to expand your network through volunteering or joining a professional association to see who you meet.

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25 years old woman
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Not interested in hookups or fwb

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