I've hated my job for at least the past 2 years, but I keep turning down all the job offers I get (5 so far). WTF is wrong with me?

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Stockholm syndrome

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You either recognize that grass isnt always greener, or are not able to make decisions

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That's fair. I need to do more of that.

I tend to get offers from people who cold call me on linkedin, and radio silence when I apply to jobs.

Time to revisit the drawing board I suppose

Why are you rejecting the offers ?

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Well then you know the answer to your question

Well... you went to internet strangers for psychological advice, so I’d start with that.

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You need to stop interviewing for opportunities that don't interest you. Figure out what you want out of a role/company and see if there is anything on the market that fits.

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Let us know when you figure it out :-)

1 word, stockholm.

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