I’ve met this guy a few times and even made out, but he hasn’t asked me out. Is something wrong here? Should I continue to wait for a date or continue swiping right on apps?

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Nobody would tell you to wait I don’t think.
You’re not with him or even dating him so continue to look :)

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Next time he reaches out just say “I would love if you took me out on a date”. If he gets weird about it then drop him and move on


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If he wanted to then he would. Move on.


As a guy, who is very decisive. This is a little jacked up when people just say "if he wanted to, he would"

It's very possible he's equally unsure about everything like her.


Men know what they want and it doesn’t take provoking from a woman. Keep swiping


keep swiping until something more serious occurs.

Or just ask him what "this" is. That'll get you the clearest answer


As a guy, lemme tell ya, he’s sport fuckin


He’s an F boy


Oh don’t worry I understood everything you actually explained (and didn’t explain, since that would be a vacuous truth)

Half of the 🐠 are gonna say swipe right and the other half will say “we could go on a date”.
Choice is yours 😉


Where have your meetings been? Are you out and met him through friends or how have you met him a couple times and made out? If you met via dating app and you just went to his house then he’s not asking you on a date because he’s taking the easy route.

That being said- I’m a little more direct and if you like the guy, I would ask in a playful way if you’re ever going to go on a proper date


What do you mean he hasn’t “asked you out”, did you just bump into him at walmart and made out or something? I’m sure he has to have asked you out to a date before you guys started kissing


Tell us!


Where are you meeting him? If you can’t communicate what you’re looking for and that you’d like a date, it’s not a good match. Sounds like this is a casual thing between the two of you.

Keep swiping.

...oh and stop seeing him because he is not that into you. If he was, he would have said something.

My two cents.

Sit on his face

How are you going to find a relationship on a hookup app? If you want someone to take you seriously, it starts with you. Go on a dating app.

Why don’t you ask him out?

Not a coincidence that my two relationships have been with latinas. “Some” American women tend to be bland. Rely too much on scripts “guy makes the first move” “guy has to pay first date” etc etc.

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