I’ve noticed a pattern with guys I meet off Grindr...All of them want to go for a second round and they are extremely passionate. I’m someone who overthinks a lot and not sure whether that’s a good or bad thing... the second (sometimes third round). For reference, I’m a bottom. To my tops, please chime in; provide some perspective, please. 😊

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It’s a good thing. I’ve done this. It means I have more love to give you.

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That’s what I was thinking too! I guess I must be doing something right. 😂

Pent-up sexual frustration due to Covid, nothing to do with you ;)

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That makes sense but there are so many guys in the area. For context, I live near SF.

In what way would that be a bad thing? If it was bad they’d want to get off and get out asap

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My bad 🙈 Like I said, I get in my head a lot. 😅

It's a good thing unless you can't take it 😝

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How many rounds is too many?

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You tell me 😊

Sex gets better when it’s with a regular fwb. You should also try occasional overnight stays

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I don’t like FWBs. I don’t want to open the door for something else. I know myself and have learned from my experience 😭

Cont...And yes, I enjoy it just a lingering thought in the back of my mind.

Is there a question in here?

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