I’ve only been in short term casual flings & i feel like they are always shallow in convo - I try to get deeper to clarify my intentions but i think it’s too soon and it crashes. At what point do you start talking more emotional/deeper topics with someone you are romantically interested in? What do those topics include?

So I’m a 26 year old guy, work in finance, I love playing tennis and eating Italian food and am just looking for someone super honest and straightforward to date. I am the shy and awkward type of person, but open up to people who I trust, DM if you wanna learn more about me.

Any male fishies currently in Michigan/Detroit area in here?

It’s official that after 7 years I am now single in my late 30s…. Moments of excitement and moments sadness come and go. 🥂

Anyone out tonight? Want to meet up on U St?

Just some self affirmation. If her fear of commitment lands us not dating, I'll bounce back. I live in one of the most beautiful places in the world, have a loving family and many friends, and a rewarding job that challenges me. I'll rediscover inner peace before I date, and I'll find my long term partner eventually.

Any single male here? I am 30s, Asian female, tax senior in public accounting. Love cook, movie, travel.

Any single ladies looking for a handsome cub? 😉😘 DM 28AZ

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

I met a couple girls through a friend and they’re both really smart and fun to be with. I’ve been thinking about getting back in the dating scene but don’t know which one to ask out. They’re both friends so I can’t really try the other if one doesn’t work out. Thoughts?

Anyone have date ideas for things to do on 1/1 in Boston? I am going out with someone I have been dating for a bit over a month and want to plan something fun for us to do, but not sure what is even open that day…

Any single females in New England area who are down to chat ? If it works may be a drink ? 30M here

How many of you here think you are way too attractive?

Has anyone else quit the apps and starting meeting people IRL? It's so much better imo

How much do you charge your nightly rate when you sleep with your CD’s wife? Round up to 30 min’s or bill 69 just for fun.

So I just recently got into dating after a break up 3 months ago. I joined some dating apps and have been getting quite a few matches. I’ve never dated anyone like to a point of going on traditional dates. Basically, I have no clue what to do on a date once i have one planned. Like I’ve been on a few and it’s been just talking but I guess I have no clue what to do after. I’m probably just rambling at this point but basically I need advice on actual dates and how to feel it out and what to do. Ty

Anyone thinks Peter might not propose to anyone? Because he keeps saying he does not know how it ends... 🤷🏼‍♀️ Maybe date Maddie, but no proposal...

Any single cute woman up for drink tonight?

Veteran 🐠 how do you talk about your military experiences when you’re dating? I was an infantry officer that served in Afghanistan. I don’t put anything about being a veteran on my profile, but it’s still part of my story when they ask what I did before consulting. This frequently turns into one or more of the following responses: “I had an ex who had PTSD” or “Don’t most of you have PTSD?” or “I thought you all couldn’t read?” This has happened a lot. Need some help navigating. I live in DC.

How do you know if someone likes you in the beginning of dating? I met this guy online who I thought was cute and we went on a few dates. He always texted me right after the date and always initiates another date right after or within a day. He’s been sweet to me (ie when I was packing for a trip, he noticed there’s dirty dishes in the sink and he just started washing them for me) but he never texts in between dates and doesn’t really initiates much physical contact (he reciprocates when I do)

Any lady 🐠 up for a drink/dinner tonight? 23 M here.

Super bored waiting for school to start in the fall. Any good book recommendations?

I don’t know how to spell anymore without a computer. 🥴

Does anyone work at Intel? I met a guy who said he moved here from Ireland for a promotion at Intel. He said they are paying his first year of housing. Does that sound right?

Recently had a second round interview with one company 2 weeks ago and still have not heard back. When I check online it shows still in process. How long does it normally take to hear back about a position?

Hey Guys, whats the best way to get from Heathrow airport to London (specifically rotherhithe)? Would taking the train be advised with my two luggage? Or taking a taxi, uber, etc,? thanks!

In TCS portal my status is showing as evaluated for almost 7days and the current date keeps changing. My salary structure sheet has come and i have accepted it. Wilk TCS give me offer letter?? It has been almost two weeks since I accepted the salary structure.

Does anyone else dread flying back home to spend a weekend in the town you grew up in? The older I get the harder it is for me to go home and visit for the weekend. How do you deal with the anxiety of going home? I love my family and am fairly close to them. I have another sibling that lives out west. Our parents support us living out of state and don’t blame us for moving out of our tier 3 Midwest city(just an opinion).

Hello Fishes, could anyone please help with PwC referral? 3years of experience in Internal Audit, Risk and Analytics. Thank you in advance

Is Citi a dysfunctional organization, true or false?

Where can we get diagnosed as ADHD? I am above 30s. Cannot even finish a task without any break. Need to talk to doctor in Germany but do not know whom should i address first

Are there any in house entertainment roles that are particularly good? Netflix is obviously FAANG but I’ve heard the culture is cutthroat. On the other end of the spectrum, heard the traditional TV networks pay terribly. Any other options? What about in house music roles? Is that a thing?

Is Delhi seeing H1N1 Flu? I got to know that it's in the rise in delhi? Is that true ?

Will be short 3 Marriott nights to platinum

Most tech workers are Democrats, but most Democrats are to the left of most tech workers on economics. Who's your favorite politician?

I would like to know what everyone out there really thinks will happen to the value of farming land. Will fears about a food crisis drive the value up, or will fuel/shipping prices and methane crackdowns make the property lose value?

What’s the salary range for quality engineer at palantir? Location: Palo Alto

Anyone else having relationship issues since conora? Anyone know if divorce rate has increased?

what age did you get married?

Ex who dumped me abruptly before I planned on proposing reached out and wants to meet up 6 months later to try to get back together. I feel mostly anger towards her. Bad idea to accept and meet up

why do i struggle when my s/o isn’t texting me? ik they’re not cheating on me, ik they still love me, all that jazz.

but for some reason i’m not at peace when they take some time to themselves.

any tips or advice?

Need gift ideas: my partner’s parents let me stay at their beach cottage and would like to gift them something nice. They are well off, like food, and outdoors stuff. Any suggestions?

How much do you spend for your partner’s birthday?

If a person were worried that their fiancee could potentially be with them purely for monetary gain, would it be wrong to test them before the marriage? By test I mean have a third party offer a decent amount of money to break off the wedding?

*I would like to be clear that this is purely a hypothetical question. I'm not in a position where I need, want, or could do this, but I have an unfortunate experience in the past, where an ex significant other was not the person I thought they were*

Anyone be in a relationship where the other has an alcohol problem? Every night out drinking leads to emotional breakdowns and fights. Been going on for 6 months now. Should I break up?

I met a couple girls through a friend and they’re both really smart and fun to be with. I’ve been thinking about getting back in the dating scene but don’t know which one to ask out. They’re both friends so I can’t really try the other if one doesn’t work out. Thoughts?

8 years together, one married. In our 30’s.

I find my husband physically attractive but am not passionate about him or do not feel “pulled” towards him. Is this normal?

How do I know if my spouse is being emotionally abusive and a bully? Everytime they can, for any mistake, they unload on me. I’m about to explode.

A friend of mine told me I should have Narcan on hand for my boyfriend who does coke sometimes. I'm firmly against it. He knows I hate when he does it and I don't want the emotional weight of carrying it around in my purse. Like, if he's going to do that, he should carry his own damn Narcan. Am the asshole? She thinks I'm being cruel since it can be lifesaving and you can get it for free.

Ive been in a relationship for 7 months. We met 4+ years ago but it didn't go anywhere at that time. We kept running into each other throughout the years and stayed cordial. When we started talking again this time around, I had flat out asked him about many things including education. Contd.

12 years and my partner won't do chores. Vent vent vent. I make 80% of our income and pay 80% of expenses. I'm also tidy but hate cleaning. Partner works 20-30 hours/ week no kids and is a slob. 3 months ago made chore list, got them to sign on the list the 50/50 split that it was fair. 3 months later I've been doing my chores they haven't done any. Brought it up today and was accused that the list was unfair they refuse and they dont have time because they must "work to subsidize your expenses"

We're about to start planning our wedding. I have a huge family and friend group (100+) that I want to invite and she has a very small family and group of friends (>50). We haven't talked about this yet, but I wanted to get some opinions on this before hand. Should I reduce the be l number of people I want to invite to match hers? Is it unfair to her that I'll have a significant majority at the wedding?

How do you know if someone likes you in the beginning of dating? I met this guy online who I thought was cute and we went on a few dates. He always texted me right after the date and always initiates another date right after or within a day. He’s been sweet to me (ie when I was packing for a trip, he noticed there’s dirty dishes in the sink and he just started washing them for me) but he never texts in between dates and doesn’t really initiates much physical contact (he reciprocates when I do)

GF and I are having major issues stemming around my family not liking her. Got into a major fight Friday and haven't spoken since. She said she's having doubts and questioning the whole relationship. Today's our one year...what can I possibly say. Don't know what she's expecting