Just backed out of a signed offer and I feel like shit. The new company was very delayed in issuing an offer letter (3 weeks from verbal) and approaching a month from background check. I missed kick off events and offered to visit happy hours, but they denied that request until after the start date (which had to be pushed back).

I feel I’m justified in reneging but the group lead did everything they could to recruit and move things along, so I feel bad. Here to vent.

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If they can't get their s--- together to get you a start date and letter... What else would they be like? Cyas...!

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Got something else lined up? Otherwise, why pull out?

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I mean it's frustrating for sure, but hopefully you have something better in the pipeline. Was it a major company or a smaller place?

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Major company - 70k employees globally. I have other options but I hate to pull my commitment.

Don’t make this decision of feeling bad. If they can’t even get an offer letter together in a month then imagine what other operational inefficiencies they probably have. Also, they may have still been shopping around before fully signing you, so don’t feel too bad. It’s just business.

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