Just broke up with my partner of four years, nervous about living by myself in a pandemic, but kind of looking forward to it? Any tips? (I’m in NYC)

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Phase 1: Books books books and whole30 to clear your mind and body out.

Phase 2: Undo all of phase 1 with show binges and building out a strong home bar.

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Stay busy. Learn a new skill. Start that project ya always wanted to start. Good luck!

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Weed

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When you walk around the house naked (and once you live alone, you absolutely will), close the shades.

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Hear me out...

Peloton or a SoulCycle bike. Kind of obsessed and having been losing the quarantine 15+ and got me into good workout habits again. Good stress reliever

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Stay away from drugs and alcohol to cope. Keep yourself busy! Appreciate that you can probably get cheaper rent than ever before.

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I’m currently working on a series of still life drawings from various video games I’ve played...and I think I want to get into fermenting, and buy a mini trampoline...

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Lived a bit above my budget to live by myself in Brooklyn a year ago. Probably not the best thing to do given the volatility of jobs right now but I will say: nothing beat coming home from work and sitting in quiet. Something to be said about satisfying about falling asleep on your couch watching what you want, after eating what you want, then going to bed when you want...sometimes naked...with the temperature set to what you like.

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I lived right by the Whole Foods in Williamsburg. Wouldn’t trade that year in for anything in world. Gained about 10 pounds but it was an amazing experience and great area

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If you live by the water, go for a run and clear your head every day. It will do wonders for your headspace

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Weed and get on Omegle after 10 pm

you’re brave

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Can I combine a few things here: drink wine, smoke weed, set the AC to what you want, be naked and get a peloton. The only thing I’m missing right now is the peloton and I’m loving life.

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