Just find out my employer has been hiding a secret rubrik for how they promote people. I've been here 5 years. Already have big issues with being lied to, on account of being raised in a cult. If I can't find another job asap, I dunno what to do. This is absolutely

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Secret rubric? Wow sounds intense

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I wouldn't be so angry, except for the fact that they presented rubrik #1, while failing to mention rubrik #2.

Don’t all employers have a rubric or set of standards to some degree?

Sure - but you don't find out about it for the first time after 5 years of in-house counsel work and on this app of all places.

You only qualify for the promo if you’re able to figure out the secret rubric. You’ve done it — be happy, not angry. We look forward to you joining the partnership next year...

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