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Just gonna put this out there: found out today that my pops had a kid out of wedlock. Kid is 24yrs old. Mom is crushed. That and I have my CRT on Friday. Fuck!!!!

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At least you have a Snow in your family. #GOT

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#StandWithPDubs

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P1: at least your parents are still alive and healthy. If only I were so lucky. Very sorry for you and your Mom though. Family betrayal is the worst.

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Yep, that's fucked

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Hoping it's Jon not Ramsay #GoT

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Breathe OP. I have been through some crazy stuff such as sister not wanting to see me because I look like my Mom. How messed up is that.

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Support mom. Freeze out dad for a little while but forgive him. Life's too short.

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Not pre mom; happened during my mom. Dad knew; whole side of his family knew... They all kept it quiet.

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Such betrayal. I'm really sorry.

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Wow! Rough week. Hang in there.

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Wow that sucks. Breathe, focus on CRT, update resume. That's what I have been doing all day today lol.

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Wow, that is so hard. I definitely feel for your mom.

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What's a CRT?

Oh man. Good luck with that. On the bright side you have a surprise half sister?

OP, similar thing happened to me. I haven't talked to my dad in close to a decade.

My dads a huge perv - I've just learned to deal with it. He loves me and my sisters.

Did dad know

A1 good question. If kid is a surprise to Dad, and happened pre-mom, not so bad.

Ha, that's pretty rad. Does he go by "bastard"?

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