Just got a call from my ex-gf saying she regrets breaking up and wants to get back together. However had this amazing first date with another woman and I am really confused now. Suggestions?

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OP if your ex broke it off with no valid reason, (or the "I need to find myself" sob story) she left you for another man. It didn't work out and here she is coming back to you coz she knows she has you in the palm of her hands. Move on. You're better than that.

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My grandfather always told me: If you got two hands, you should have 2 phones

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Date both?

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In the wise words of Barney Stinson, "NEW IS ALWAYS BETTER!"

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@D3 I have realized from some of my friends' experiences there is no reset to a long relation. It always start from where you left

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She is ex for reason don't forget that

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Don't waste time. Move on with the new girl. Your ex had her chance.

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What A4 said☝️

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Keep moving forward ..it happened for a reason...my ex did that too and I am so glad i never went back because my new man is perfection.

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@OP in all seriousness you could just tell your ex you want a reset on the relationship and take your time while getting to know the new girl

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OP, I can bet my left testicle that your ex went on the alpha cock carousel and now wants to settle for beta provider.

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Op- what's the guarantee that she won't do it again. If she really loved you, she wouldn't have up and left without a valid reason. Something is definitely fishy. Like the first post says, never look back.

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Don't do it OP don't do it

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How was the sex?

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You know the right thing to do.

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D3 I don't to get messed up in dating both.

The confusion is because we dated 2 years. One fine day she decided we were not compatible and we never discussed and broke off. But I genuinely loved her and was sure she was the one

How long have you and your ex been broken up?

You know where that road leads, you've been down that road.

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