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Just got three consecutive BFPs and set up an appointment with my gyno. I am freaking out as it’s my first baby. Any specific books, apps or websites you guys recommend for the next steps?

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And congratulations!!!

Thank you A1 😊

Also recommend Expecting Better, as well as the Mayo Clinic guide to pregnancy, just to better understand what to expect and what’s happening with my body and baby’s. Used the Baby Center app for updates o. The baby’s development, as well as various health trackers, etc. that we’re useful or interesting. Congratulations!! 😊

Great! I will check those out and the app as well, thank you A2 😊

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