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Just needed to vent. Me: I’m so tired since baby’s been going through a sleep regression lately. It’d be great if you could watch her most of tomorrow so I can get a break

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Oh yea I feel this hard. When my husband “cooks”, I’m interrupted for the next hour with “do we have eggs? What do you use- olive oil or butter? Does this look done to you? Where do we keep the pepper?” So now I’m not only fully on childcare duty but also rehearsing for when I get my food network gig.

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Husband: ok, I’ll cook for you tomorrow Me: that’s great and all but I’d really appreciate it if you just play with the baby more Husband: proceeds to cook in the morning. **Sets off the smoke alarm, waking the baby an hour early from her nap** Me: 😭 Husband: (still not playing with the baby since he is still “cooking”) Hope your Sunday is going better than mine

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Thanks ladies ❤️. He was very apologetic and cleaned the whole house. Baby also took a solid second nap so we’re back on track. Also food + coffee somewhat makes up for lack of sleep haha.

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Sending you love. I’ve just come to accept that if my husband watches the baby while I nap that she’s most likely going to be watching him play NBA2K. Just casually priming her to be a basketball player ⛹️‍♀️

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Ugh, the pain of waking the baby early!! No doubt threw off the rest of the schedule for the day too. I’m so sorry. Highly encourage you to tell Hubby you love him and the baby, but you need a night on your own. You’ll be at the Holiday Inn if there’s an emergency. Then book a room at the Ritz and sleeeeeeeeeep. (Or just go to a spa for a couple hours in the afternoon and sleep by the pool in one of those fluffy robes. You can put cucumbers on your eyes and no one will know!) You’ll get through this!! ❤️❤️❤️

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Ugh I’m sorry OP I feel you! My husband loves to cook so I’m always entertaining the toddler. What if you try asking specifically 2-4 or whatever I would like to take a bath and a nap. Can you pretend I’m not here? And then lock the bathroom door.

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